The Mommy’s Choice

You’re cleaning up breakfast dishes in relative peace and quiet when all of a sudden, three things happen, all at once. 1) You’ve got to poop. 2) The baby runs past you with a very saggy, very stinky, very messy diaper. 3) The older two break out in a no...

As Perfect As Our Life Gets

This is the stuff Christmas movies are made of. We woke up to 2/3 of our children cuddling us in bed.  The third joined eventually (she’s a late sleeper).  Looking out the window, we were excited to see a winter wonderland awaiting. We made our way to the...

Mommy Moment

Josh and I were having a conversation in the car.  It was either yesterday or the day before.  Or the day before that.  The days tend to blur together. Anyway, we were talking.  I had some point I was trying to get across. Meanwhile, in the back, Benjamin was...

Pleading for Perfection

I don’t know exactly when my life changed. I don’t know when I lost control. When the stress started mounting. When I started yelling more. Loving less. I woke up one morning and didn’t like my life anymore. The children were fighting, screaming,...

Arguing With A Three-Year-Old Over Shorts

(Benjamin comes out in jeans on a day where the high is over 80 degrees) Me: Benjamin, it’s too hot for jeans, go put shorts on. Benjamin: No! Me: Yes!  It’s too hot for jeans!  You need shorts! Benjamin: No! Me: (thinking: I am NOT washing those jeans AND...